"For by your words you shall be justified, and by your words you shall be condemned." - Matthew 12:37
Jerry was always in a good mood. He always had a positive thing to say. Ask him, "how are
you?" He'd reply, “If I were any better, I would be twins!” If an
employee were having a bad day, Jerry was sure to show them the positive
side. “I don’t get it! You can’t be positive all the time. How do you
do it?” Tina asked. “I say to myself each morning, Jerry, you have two
choices today. You can choose to be in a good mood or not. I choose to
be in a good mood. Each time something bad happens, I can choose to be a
victim or I can choose to learn from it. I choose to learn from it.
Every time I see someone sad, I can choose to accept their sadness or I
can point out the positive side. I choose the positive side.” He
replied. “Yeah, right, it’s not that easy,” Tina protested. “Yep, it
is,” Jerry quipped.
Tina reflected on what Jerry said. She
left the restaurant to start a business. Several years later, he left
the back door open one morning and was held up at gunpoint by three
armed robbers. He was shot. Luckily, he was found quickly and rushed to
the hospital. After hours of surgery and weeks of intensive care, he was
discharged. They met 6 months after the accident. "How are you", she
asked, “If I were any better, I’d be twins. Wanna see my scars?” She
asked "what went through your mind during the robbery?" “I should have
locked the back door,” Jerry replied. “As I lay on the floor, I
remembered; I could choose to live, or I could choose to die.