"Let us not seek the Republican answer or the Democratic answer, but
the right answer. Let us not seek to fix the blame for the past. Let us
accept our own responsibility for the future." - John F. Kennedy
In relationships every time, I often wonder why no sooner than a couple
gets together they start having irreconcilable differences. It blows my
mind to pieces and I'm like "what in God's green earth happened?" I
read some time ago that, "until blame transfer stops, character building
doesn't start". Is it surprising to discover that it's so easy for us
to assume the next person is the problem? It's got to be the other
person. It's either the way to look at me, or the way they talk to me.
They are either too bossy or too full of themselves. They never take
correction. They are so insensitive, so unromantic, so boring...the list
is endless.
Here's a story. "My husband is an Engineer, I love him for his steady nature, and I love the warm feeling when I lean against his broad shoulders. We courted three years and now, two years into marriage, I would have to admit, that I am tired of it. The reasons of me loving him before, have all now seemed to have evaporated.
