Sunday, 20 October 2013

THE GIFT OF FAMILY (2); HOME INFLUENCE I


“People who have good relationships at home are more effective in the marketplace” - Zig Ziglar



Show me the home of a boy, and I will prophesy concerning his future without a tremor of uncertainty. Show me a man's home, and I can account for his peculiarities, his cheerfulness, or his despair. A quiet home, on whose altar the flame of love and confidence never goes out, is as close to heaven as mortals can get on this side of the grave. A home which lacks love and confidence breeds germs of misery, which multiply until ruin has done its awful work.

One of the greatest writers and social reformers of medieval England was Charles Dickens. With his exposure novels, such as Oliver Twist, Dickens attacked the working of the poor law of his Victorian Age. Bleak House is another novel of social realism, replete with social analysis and protest. And, with the use of pathos and melodrama Dickens, nevertheless, manages to weave an assessment of the corruption at the heart of Victorian society. Dickens also introduced to many readers the historical novel as well as the detective novel and the thriller, genres that maintain their popularity and widespread appeal to this day.

One historical novel, A Tale of Two Cities was written by Dickens after having read Thomas Carlysle's The French Revolution: A History. Carlysle's study of the oppression of the poor greatly influenced the themes of A Tale of Two Cities in which Dickens draws parallels between France at the time of the Revolution and England. Dickens, of course, was concerned that something like the revolution could occur in his own country. Dickens was enormously successful. He was a real rock star in his day. In addition to everything he accomplished in his life, I think one of his greatest accomplishments is that he was able to write books that still touch us today, and still make us stop and think about the issues he raised.

Charles Dickens once addressed a letter to his son Henry while he was at college, advising him to keep out of debt and confide all his perplexities to his father. The letter concluded as follows: "I most strongly and affectionately impress upon you the priceless value of the New Testament, and the study of that book as the one unfailing guide in life. Deeply respecting it, and bowing down before the character of our Savior, you cannot go very wrong, and will always preserve at heart a true spirit of veneration and humility.

Similarly, I impress upon you the habit of saying a Christian prayer every night and morning. These things have stood by me all through my life, and remember that I tried to render the New Testament intelligible to you and lovable by you when a mere baby. And so God bless you!"

The influence of family in charting the course of destiny can never be overemphasized, little wonder; it was Michael J Fox that said “Family is not an important thing. It's everything”

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